The reversed 9 of Wands that you have chosen indicates that your strong personality tends to be self-centered, making it difficult to break free from being single. Because of your personality, you seek to take control in emotional situations, often being the first to express your feelings even when you are asked to let go of them initially. If your partner also insists on their own opinions in emotional matters, it may lead to conflicts and potentially impact the outcome of your emotions. People you meet through matchmaking may not pay much attention to emotions, making it challenging to have a long-lasting relationship.