You are able to behave in a way that does not make the other person feel bad, because you can think about how others feel before doing what you want. You may not be desperately competing or making steady efforts, but you can take actions that make you likable, which should lead to being blessed with good luck, such as being recognized by your superiors. If you lose confidence in yourself, it may be when your judgment is not acknowledged.

Simply put, "You seem not to settle for just being satisfied yourself, as you appear to seek recognition from others until they approve. Therefore, in order for you to have confidence, you may need a partner who faces you as an equal and provides clear feedback."