No matter what you do, "overdoing" will not lead to good results. Try to be somewhat careless about everything.
In terms of romantic relationships, it is natural to want to try to understand the other person's feelings, but let's avoid testing the other person excessively. By always showing respect to the other person, it seems possible to build a strong foundation of trust.
In terms of work, believing in sudden upwelling ideas can lead to great results. It appears that turning spontaneous ideas into reality works better than making detailed plans. During relaxation time, it should be good to drink a non-caffeinated sweet beverage.